Valentine’s Day can bring up a lot for folks, even those in romantic relationships. That’s why I didn’t want to let this day pass without taking a moment to check-in.
Have you checked in with you?
We can live life like it’s a never-ending checklist, or we can put the most important person at the center—ourselves—and recognize that nothing gets done well if we aren’t well. Furthermore, there is no point to the hustle if it doesn’t align with our central goal: living a life rooted in love and well-being.
A lot of people struggle with self-love. For various reasons, folks think it’s anything from cheesy to selfish.
I’m here to tell you that it’s central.
Love, accept, and care for yourself with a 10.0 magnitude, and the love and grace you cultivate within yourself naturally radiate to others. It becomes what you’ve always dreamed you could give to them—effortlessly. It’s the greatest hack.
I know this firsthand. My whole life, I’ve been on a journey for love. When I manifested my husband (who happens to be a Valentine’s birthday baby) and later our daughter, I thought I had completed my life’s mission. I had long known (it’s in my astrology charts) that my purpose was to find love. But there was more to do—and that was to love me.
Today, basking in the glow of this Leo full moon and this day of love, we are being challenged to love ourselves with more fervor.
Here are some reflection questions to get you started:
- What is a part of myself or characteristic of myself I push away?
- What is the need behind this part’s behavior?
- How can I give that part of myself what it needs to feel safe, supported, and yes… loved?
There is so much more to explore when it comes to building self-love and manifesting romantic love if that is your desire. To dive deeper into this work, check out my coaching page and reach out for a consultation.
Let this be your invitation to start with you. You deserve it.
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